Belief Moves Mountains
5 Phases To Transform A ‘Team Of Losers’
Step 1. The ‘Realistic Cynic’ Feels Doomed
Here I was standing in on a Bali beach in the morning sunshine ready to knock my head against a coconut palm. All my problems had started with a good idea…
I had decided to sign up for this super expensive 10-day retreat that was supposed to reveal the secrets of superior business success to us handful of initiates who had enough cash to afford the rather steep ticket.
So there I was, standing in the first rays of the early morn cursing myself for my stupidity: I had expected to be sitting in a plush conference room, listening to some wise business guru. Far from it: the organizers had split us participants into randomly chosen teams and told us we were supposed to learn about cooperation and leadership by building a championship beach volleyball team to compete and beat the other teams in 9 days time.
As I looked around this randomly assorted group of people I ‘knew’ we were doomed! Not only did I not have the foggiest notion of how to get a ball across a net… there also was a guy with a severe cross-eye condition, a lady with a rather noticeable weight issue and other such souped up couch potatoes whose closest contact with sports had been punching in the ESPN number on their TV remotes!
Step 2. The Fearless Positive Leader Steps Up
“I know THIS is the winning team, I can SEE that!” a loud voice ripped me out of my ‘realistic’ and defeatist musings.
There he was, a 6′-something, muscle packed beach god with a California perma-smile beaming total confidence and can-do spirit.
My conservative, cynical (but to my mind ‘realistic’), European mind recoiled from this American ‘BS artiste’…
I mean: Where we looking at the same team here…? Or was he living in a parallel fantasy reality?
But the beach god kept right on coming: about how we would figure out each person’s strength and make it work for the team, how we would find it easy and fun to learn this game and how we would handsomely beat all comers on day 10.
Never ever was there the slightest doubt in his voice and demeanor: our victory was a foregone conclusion!
Step 3. The Leader Takes Responsibility & Overcomes ‘Realistic Cynicism’
He asked us for our prior volleyball experience, which turned out to be a grand total of zero. So he asked us if we minded him being the captain of our team. “Sure, whatever, Captain Plastic Fantastic” went through my mind as I raised my hand in agreement. I mean, what options did we have, right?
Step 4. The Leader Holds The Vision & Builds, Builds, Builds The Team
Ed, or Mr. Ed to us, moved swiftly, did a little try-out and assigned us to our positions. Always positive, reinforcing, supportive, motivating. Slowly his total positivity permeated my cynical attitude of rejection, it overcame my fear of making mistakes and losing face on the ball court.
I actually started looking forward to go to each morning practice and see how our team bloomed from strength to strength under the warm sunshine of Mr Ed’s attention.
By day 10 Mr Ed had transformed us into passionate, fearless, go-getting, tight- knit volleyball gangstas ready to take on a bear on heat!
Long story short: we smoked every single team they threw at us. We were running on adrenaline and certainty! Mr Ed had installed such focus, fierceness and determination in us that we KNEW we would win, and we did!
Step 5. The Leader Is The Chief Believer
The last score had been made, the whoops of joy were subsiding and I decided to ask Mr Ed a question that had been nagging me all these days “Ed, how did you know we were the winning team on day one? I thought we were total losers who didn’t stand a chance!”
Ed looked at me, smiled and said “The first day I saw you guys it scared my pants off! But what choice did I have? The choice was to lead you to victory!”
You make the choice:
Lead Your Team To Victory
Or
Step Aside